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Isolation as the Fruit of Liberalism

                                                                                   Branson Parler July 18, 2018                                                                                                                ...

How our cars, our neighborhoods, and our schools are pulling us apart

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn Share via Email More Options Share on Whatsapp Share on Pinterest Share on Google Plus Share on Google Plus Share on Pinterest Share on Tumblr Resize Text Print Article By Emily Badger June 9 Follow @emilymbadger This image, from San Francisco, courtesy of Flickr user Ken Walton under a Creative Commons license. Americans are pulling apart. We're pulling apart from each other in general. And, in particular, we're pulling apart from people who differ from us. The evidence on this idea is varied , broad and often weird . We are, as Robert Putnam famously put it , less likely to join community bowling leagues. We're more likely, as I mentioned yesterday  after a police confrontation with a group of black teens at a private swimming pool, to swim in seclusion, in gated community clubs and backyard pools that have taken the place of public pools. We're more likely to spend time isolate...

Rob Bell and Oprah aside, marriage wasn’t designed to solve loneliness

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http://thinkchristian.reframemedia.com/rob-bell-and-oprah-aside-marriage-wasnt-designed-to-solve-loneliness Branson Parler 02/20/15 In a recent appearance on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday to promote his latest book, The Zimzum of Love ,  Rob Bell made remarks on marriage that are causing consternation among some and receiving applause from others. In the interview, the Pastor Emeritus of Mars Hill Bible Church expressed his sentiments that the church is “ moments away ” from affirming same-sex marriage, following the broader cultural consensus along those lines. Here’s part of Bell’s rationale for his position: “One of the oldest aches in the bones of humanity is loneliness. …Loneliness is not good for the world. And so, whoever you are, gay or straight, it is totally normal, natural and healthy to want somebody to go through life with. It's central to our humanity. We want someone to go on the journey with.” I think he’s right on here. As relational beings...

The age of loneliness is killing us

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  For the most social of creatures, the mammalian bee, there’s no such thing now as society. This will be our downfall       George Monbiot   ‘Social isolation is as potent a cause of early death as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Loneliness is twice as deadly as obesity.’ Photograph: Feri Lukas/Rex What do we call this time? It’s not the information age: the collapse of popular education movements left a void filled by marketing and conspiracy theories . Like the stone age, iron age and space age, the digital age says plenty about our artefacts but little about society. The anthropocene, in which humans exert a major impact on the biosphere, fails to distinguish this century from the previous 20. What clear social change marks out our time from those that precede it? To me it’s obvious. This is the Age of Loneliness. When Thomas Hobbes claimed that in the state of nature, before authority arose to k...
COMMENTARY: Isolated in America Tom Ehrich | Apr 23, 2013 | Leave a Comment   3   1 reddit 0     0 (RNS) I wonder if social isolation — not extremist religion or Chechen roots — explains the two brothers who set off bombs during the Boston Marathon, killing three and wounding more than 170. The older brother, Tamerlan Tsarnaev, was quoted as saying “I don’t have a single American friend, I don’t understand them.” One emerging theory is that, he dealt with isolation in America by seeking his heritage in Chechnya and there, some think, found purpose in violence against his unwelcoming home. In feeling isolated, the alleged bomber isn’t alone. Isolation is the new normal in America. More than one in four Americans have no friends for sharing troubles, a recent study of social isolation found. Those who do have friends tend to hav...